Jan. 7, 2026

How to Have Spirit Led Wisdom in Times of Disagreement

SEGMENT ONE, THE GOSPEL CLARIFIED (15 MIN)

Biblical Foundation

  • Apostles and elders lead with the whole church involved

  • Trusted messengers sent with clarity and care

  • Truth delivered relationally, not authoritatively

  • Salvation by grace affirmed without compromise

Key Observations

  • Unity requires intentional leadership

  • Words can unsettle or strengthen

  • Gospel clarity removes unnecessary burdens

  • Freedom is protected without neglecting fellowship

Theological Anchors

  • Grace alone saves

  • Law does not justify

  • Fellowship matters

  • Love governs freedom

Practical Truths

  • Distinguish salvation issues from fellowship issues

  • Guard the gospel without crushing people

  • Choose clarity over control

  • Protect unity without diluting truth


SEGMENT TWO, FREEDOM WITHOUT FRACTURE (15 MIN)

Core Theme

  • Christian liberty must be shaped by love

  • Freedom exercised without wisdom becomes destructive

Biblical Anchors

  • Knowledge puffs up, love builds up

  • Freedom serves others, not self

  • Rights surrendered for the sake of unity

Key Warnings

  • Being right can still cause harm

  • Liberty can become pride

  • Boldness without love creates division

Modern Tensions

  • Social media conviction vs pastoral wisdom

  • Preference elevated to doctrine

  • Self expression mistaken for maturity

Intentional Steps

  • Ask “Is this loving?” before “Is this allowed?”

  • Pause before exercising freedom publicly

  • Limit liberty when it threatens fellowship

  • Choose unity over self validation


SEGMENT THREE, DISCERNMENT IN COMMUNITY (15 MIN)

Core Phrase

  • “It seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us”

Discernment Defined

  • Not impulse or urgency

  • Not emotional consensus

  • Not spiritual intimidation

Biblical Wisdom

  • Counsel provides safety

  • Wisdom is peaceable and open to reason

  • Peace acts as confirmation

Healthy Process

  • Scripture examined

  • Testimonies weighed

  • Time allowed

  • Community engaged

Discernment Pitfalls

  • Spiritualizing pressure

  • Isolating from counsel

  • Rushing clarity

Intentional Steps

  • Slow down major decisions

  • Invite godly counsel

  • Test impressions against Scripture

  • Let peace, not pressure, lead

  • Protect unity while pursuing truth


CLOSING EMPHASIS

  • Grace frees

  • Love guides

  • Wisdom protects

  • Unity advances the mission