Oct. 17, 2025

How to Love Like Jesus in a World That’s Lost Its Heart! (Friday 10/17/25)

How to Love Like Jesus in a World That’s Lost Its Heart

Scripture Focus: John 13:31–38

Core Theme: The glory of God revealed through sacrificial love that transforms failure, restores the fallen, and calls believers to love boldly in a divided world.


I. The Command of Glory — John 13:31–38 (Segment One – 15 min)

Main Idea: The cross reveals that glory comes through obedience and love.
Key Points:

  • Judas leaves the room—darkness departs, glory begins.

  • “Now the Son of Man is glorified”—glory through suffering, not escape.

  • Love is the new commandment and the identifying mark of discipleship.

  • Peter’s passion without humility—zeal without surrender.

  • Jesus predicts denial, not to condemn, but to prepare for restoration.

Practical Steps:

  1. Redefine Glory: See obedience as success.

  2. Love as Jesus Loved: Sacrifice over convenience.

  3. Learn from Peter: Failure refines, not disqualifies.

  4. Make Love Your Testimony: Truth spoken through compassion.

Mini-Crescendo:

  • Love is not theory—it’s the fire of divine obedience.

  • True discipleship isn’t about being impressive, it’s about being surrendered.


II. The Counterfeit Love of the Modern Church (Segment Two – 15 min)

Main Idea: Modern Christianity often markets love without manifesting it.
Key Points:

  • We’ve turned love into slogans and performance.

  • Real love costs something—it bleeds, it serves, it stays.

  • Churches prioritize image over intimacy with Christ.

  • Performative kindness replaces spiritual conviction.

  • The early church’s love was gritty, sacrificial, and Spirit-driven.

  • “By this all will know…” — our credibility is our compassion.

Practical Steps:

  1. Repent of Religious Image: Return to authenticity.

  2. Relearn Compassion: Enter people’s pain with presence.

  3. Remove the Masks: Trade performance for transparency.

  4. Love with Action: Forgive, serve, and live mercy aloud.

Mini-Crescendo:

  • The world doesn’t need our branding—it needs our brokenness healed by love.

  • When we stop pretending and start loving, revival begins.


III. The Restoration of the Denier (Segment Three – 15 min)

Main Idea: Failure isn’t final; grace transforms broken disciples into bold witnesses.
Key Points:

  • Peter’s denial exposes pride, not lack of love.

  • Jesus predicted failure but planned restoration.

  • The rooster’s crow wasn’t the end—it was the wake-up call for redemption.

  • John 21: Jesus restores Peter—three denials, three “I love You’s.”

  • Grace rebuilds what guilt destroyed.

  • Your worst moment can become your ministry.

Practical Steps:

  1. Return to Jesus: Don’t run from grace; run toward it.

  2. Receive Restoration: Let Jesus rewrite the story of your failure.

  3. Refocus Your Faith: Stop performing; start depending.

  4. Reignite Your Purpose: Let brokenness become your platform for testimony.

Mini-Crescendo:

  • The rooster doesn’t mark your ending—it marks your new beginning.

  • Grace doesn’t erase your past; it redeems it for His glory.


IV. Loving Boldly in a Divided World (Segment Four – 15 min)

Main Idea: The proof of real faith is radical love in an age of outrage.
Key Points:

  • The world thrives on division; the church must lead with love.

  • Real love doesn’t mean agreement—it means alignment with Jesus.

  • Love has a backbone; truth and grace are never enemies.

  • Peacemakers enter conflict to bring healing, not comfort.

  • Love starts at home—where pride hurts the most.

  • Bold love is proactive, not reactive.

Practical Steps:

  1. Hold Conviction with Compassion: Truth through tears, not teeth.

  2. Love Your Enemies: It’s spiritual warfare, not weakness.

  3. Start Where You Are: Family, relationships, community first.

  4. Refuse Bitterness: Don’t mirror culture; model Christ.

Mini-Crescendo:

  • The devil doesn’t fear our opinions—he fears our obedience.

  • Love is the revolution that darkness can’t counterfeit.


V. The Overall Final Conclusion — “Love Is the Final Revolution”

Theme: Love is not weakness—it’s the weapon that wins.
Key Points:

  • From Judas’ betrayal to Peter’s denial, love still triumphed.

  • Glory isn’t found in being right—it’s found in being righteous.

  • God uses broken hearts to build holy revolutions.

  • Love outlasts kingdoms, politics, and pride.

Challenge Statements:

  • When the world hates, you love.

  • When the world divides, you unite.

  • When the world demands vengeance, you offer grace.

  • When the world grows loud, you stay faithful.

Final Call:

  • Make love your legacy, grace your reputation, and Jesus your reflection.


VI. The Redemption  — “The Love That Brings You Home”

Theme: The story ends with redemption through Jesus Christ.
Key Points:

  • We are all Peter—loved, fallen, forgiven.

  • Jesus died for the real you, not the filtered version.

  • Grace calls you home before you even turn around.

  • Redemption is not about religion—it’s about relationship.

  • The cross is the bridge; the empty tomb is the proof.

Call to Salvation:

  • Acknowledge your sin.

  • Believe Jesus died and rose again.

  • Confess Him as Lord.

  • Receive His forgiveness.

Salvation Prayer (condensed):
“Jesus, forgive me. I believe You died for me and rose again. Take my heart and make it new. Be my Savior and my Lord.”

Final Declaration:

  • The shame is gone.

  • The debt is paid.

  • You are loved, forgiven, and free.

  • The glory that shone through the cross now shines through you.


End Line:

“This is the love that changed the world. This is the glory of God on display. This is redemption alive in you.”