Sept. 2, 2026

You Become What You Obey - Romans 6:13-23

Romans 6:13-23, "You Become What You Obey"

Introduction: Why We Jumped Ahead to Romans 7:1-6

  • Sometimes you need to see where Paul is going to understand where you are.
  • Romans 7:4: "So that you may belong to another."
  • Romans 7 establishes belonging before behavior.
  • Death changes jurisdiction.
  • The old claim has been broken through Christ.
  • We belong to the risen Christ.
  • Union comes before fruit.
  • Identity comes before obedience.
  • Romans 7:4: We belong to Christ "in order that we may bear fruit for God."
  • Now return to Romans 6 and hear Paul's commands through the lens of belonging.

Segment One: Who Gets Your Life?

Romans 6:13-16

  • Romans 6:13, "Do not present your members to sin."
    • Sin is always asking for our participation.
    • Our bodies can become instruments of unrighteousness or righteousness.
    • Eyes, hands, mouth, sexuality, money, influence, time, imagination.
    • Same body, different Master.
  • "Present yourselves to God."
    • We present ourselves because we have already been brought from death to life.
    • Obedience does not produce resurrection life.
    • Obedience flows from resurrection life.
    • Theology must eventually become embodied.
  • Romans 6:14, "Sin will have no dominion over you."
    • Sin may still be present, but it is no longer king.
    • Temptation is not the same thing as dominion.
    • We do not fight for freedom, we fight from freedom.
    • Christ has broken sin's rightful claim.
  • "Not under law but under grace."
    • Grace is not permission to remain enslaved.
    • Grace does not lower God's standard.
    • Grace liberates us to live under Christ's reign.
  • Romans 6:15-16, "You are slaves of the one whom you obey."
    • Grace does not eliminate obedience, it redirects it.
    • Repeated obedience reveals functional allegiance.
    • What can command me and consistently receive an immediate "yes"?
    • Every act of surrender is formative.
    • Small presentations become patterns.
    • Patterns become habits.
    • Habits shape character.
    • Character determines direction.
  • Application
    • What am I continually presenting to sin?
    • What part of my life have I kept off the altar?
    • What appetite has learned that when it speaks, I obey?
    • What am I presenting to Jesus?
    • Freedom is not having nobody to obey.
    • Freedom is finally being able to obey the One I was created for.

Segment Two: You Become What You Obey

Romans 6:17-23

  • Romans 6:17, "You who were once slaves of sin."
    • "Were" is a gospel word.
    • The past can remain part of your testimony without remaining your identity.
    • The gospel changes who you belong to.
  • "Obedient from the heart."
    • Christianity is not behavior modification.
    • God transforms the heart.
    • Jeremiah 31:33, the law written on the heart.
    • Ezekiel 36:26, the heart of stone replaced with a heart of flesh.
    • Maturity is not merely restraint, it is reordered desire.
  • Romans 6:18, "Set free from sin...slaves of righteousness."
    • Biblical freedom is not autonomy.
    • Everyone serves something.
    • Whatever you believe gives you life will eventually gain power over you.
    • The question is not, "Will I serve?"
    • The question is, "Whom will I serve?"
    • Belonging to God restores us to what we were created for.
  • Romans 6:19, "Lawlessness leading to more lawlessness."
    • Sin is never satisfied.
    • Sin does not merely want an action, it wants territory.
    • Compromise tends to multiply.
    • Both sin and righteousness have trajectories.
  • "Righteousness leading to sanctification."
    • Every day we are becoming something.
    • Sanctification is often ordinary obedience repeated over time.
    • A thousand little yeses to God shape a life.
    • Ask: "What is what I'm doing turning me into?"
  • Romans 6:21, "What fruit were you getting?"
    • Do not judge sin by its advertisement.
    • Judge it by its harvest.
    • Sin advertises pleasure and hides the invoice.
    • What did the old master actually produce?
    • Shame, bondage, brokenness, and ultimately death.
  • Romans 6:22, "The fruit you get leads to sanctification."
    • New Master, new fruit, new destination.
    • Romans 7:4 connects back: we belong to Christ so we may "bear fruit for God."
    • Fruit follows union.
    • The life we produce flows from the One to whom we belong.
  • Romans 6:23, Wages vs. Gift
    • "The wages of sin is death."
    • Wages are earned.
    • "The free gift of God is eternal life."
    • Gifts are received.
    • Paul does not say the wages of righteousness are eternal life.
    • Sin gives us what we earned.
    • God gives us what Christ earned.
    • Death is earned, life is received.
    • Eternal life is found "in Christ Jesus our Lord."

Closing Application

  • Look at the fruit.
  • What is my current way of living producing in me?
  • Don't merely ask, "Is this allowed?"
  • Ask, "Where is this taking me?"
  • Don't merely ask, "Can a Christian do this?"
  • Ask, "What kind of person is this forming me into?"
  • Every master produces fruit.
  • Every road has a destination.
  • Sin pays wages.
  • God gives life.
  • Belonging before behavior.
  • Union before fruit.
  • Identity before obedience.
  • You become what you obey.